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Where kids come first, even when the adults do not agree.

Preparing for CourtHow social media posts get used against parents in custody casesLiving with the OrderWhen One Home Allows Social Media and the Other Doesn't
Putting Children First

Why kids may rate one parent higher after a divorce

Why kids often prefer one parent after a divorce, when it signals something more serious, and how to keep your child out of the middle.

Putting Children First

Emotional well-being, two homes, hard conversations

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Putting Children FirstThe two houses have different candy rules. What do you tell your child?Learn what to tell your child when each home has different candy rules, plus shared safety steps and a plan to agree on with your co-parent.
Putting Children FirstYour Child's Therapist and the Custody Case: Who Gets to Know WhatParenting Time & SchedulesSunday Night Handoffs: Sending Your Child Back Without the Meltdown

Understanding Custody

How custody works and what courts tend to consider

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Understanding CustodyWhen a Father Seeks Full Custody: What Helps the ChildUnderstanding CustodyGuidelines Used to Determine Child CustodyUnderstanding CustodyPreparing as a Father When Custody Is Contested

Mediation & Settling Outside Court

Resolving issues with less conflict

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Mediation & Settling Outside CourtShould Your Child Sit In on Mediation?Mediation & Settling Outside CourtWhen Mediation Doesn’t Settle: What the Child Needs NextMediation & Settling Outside CourtShuttle Mediation When You Cannot Sit in the Same RoomMediation & Settling Outside CourtWhat Kids Need You to Agree On in Mediation

Preparing for Court

Hearings, evidence, witnesses, and process

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Preparing for CourtWhen You Think the Guardian ad Litem Got Your Child WrongDisagree with a Guardian ad Litem report? Learn how to respond with evidence, question the GAL where allowed, and what the judge decides.Preparing for CourtWhat a 50/50 Custody Presumption Actually Changes for Your ChildPreparing for CourtTalking to Your Child About an Upcoming Court DatePreparing for CourtHow Much Does a Child Custody Case Cost?Preparing for CourtHow Much Does It Cost to File Child Custody Papers?

Parenting Time & Schedules

Arrangements that support children

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Parenting Time & SchedulesThanksgiving in Two Homes: Plan It in OctoberThanksgiving is on November 26 this year. The families who have a good day usually settled it in October. How to plan one holiday across two homes, and what to do if you are on the alone side of it.
Parenting Time & SchedulesCan the other parent walk the block with you?Parenting Time & SchedulesWhen the Order Says Only "Thanksgiving Day": How to Mark the Rest of the Week

High-Conflict Co-Parenting

Protecting kids when adult conflict is high

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High-Conflict Co-ParentingPosting About Your Kids and Your Custody Case on Social MediaHigh-Conflict Co-ParentingWhen the Other Parent Is Late for Pickup AgainHigh-Conflict Co-ParentingWhen the Other Parent Questions Your Child After Every Visit

Special Situations

Relocation, grandparents, unmarried parents, and more

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Special SituationsHow Supervised Visits Turn Into Regular Time With Your ChildSpecial SituationsWhen Your Teenager Wants to Switch HomesSpecial SituationsFlu Shots, Vaccines, and Medical Decisions When Parents DisagreeSpecial SituationsVideo Calls With a Child Who Lives Far Away

Living with the Order

Modifications, enforcement, and long-term adjustments

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Living with the OrderWhen a New Partner Starts Deciding Whether Your Child Sees YouA new partner has no automatic say over your court-ordered schedule. Learn who is responsible and how to keep a record that protects your child.Living with the OrderCan you take your child out of state for Thanksgiving if the order never mentions travel?Living with the OrderSplitting the Cost of Activities, Braces, and Camps Without the Receipt WarLiving with the OrderThe exchange is at dinner time and your child is not in the costume yet. What now?Living with the OrderWhat costume photos can the other parent post?
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